Should I go back to my sedation dentist?


When I lived in CT I had dentist who caters to dental cowards and uses sedation. She would go out of her way to make sure I was calm even if I only needed a filling. I’ve had the fillings for years and it seems like within the past 2 months ago one of the filling is loose. My anxiety has kept me away from any dentist even though I have lived here for 10 months now. I am overdue for a dental cleaning. I tried some tooth filler material from the drugstore but it isn’t working. My tooth is starting to hurt and I really will get sick if I go to a new dentist that I don’t know. I am wondering if I should forget about even trying to call a new dentist and just go back to my old cater to cowards dentist until I can find a way to get my anxiety under control. Thanks. Mya

Mya – When you have gentle dentist who uses sedation techniques and who understands your anxiety, it’s difficult to transition to a new dentist. But the issues with your teeth need to be treated. Over-the-counter dental filler materials are often not enough to treat tooth decay for the long term. A dentist will need to remove your damaged filling and replace it with a new one.

As the filling dislodges, you will begin to experience more pain in your tooth. Don’t wait for that to happen. The tooth can even become infected and cause more problems. If your anxiety is preventing you from finding a new dentist, it may be best to return to your former dentist, provided she is within a reasonable distance.

A dental emergency can make it a difficult time to see a new dentist. If you find that you can’t return to your cater-to-cowards dentist, ask friends or acquaintances for a recommendation on a gentle dentist. He or she will likely use sedation dentistry to help you relax during your dental treatment.

This post is sponsored by Lowell, MA dentist Dr. Michael Szarek.


Can I give away teeth whitening gel from the dentist?



I took up the offer for free teeth whitening for life from my new dentist. She offers custom trays at half price and the bleaching gel is free. She uses different gel from my old dentist. I was at a dinner with some friends last weekend and somehow the topic about dental visits came up and the subject went into getting teeth whitening. I mentioned the deal my new dentist gives, and one of my friends asks if I have any whitening gel left from my former dentist. I said yes, and multiple people started asking for my old gel. I was planning on throwing it away. There are certain things that I don’t like sharing with people because if it doesn’t go well, I don’t want to hear about it. Nor do I want to feel responsible for it. My friends thought I was over-reacting and said it’s no big deal. Is there anything wrong with sharing my old teeth whitening gel with friends? Thanks. Val


Val – Your hesitation about sharing your teeth whitening gel with someone else is valid. There are several variables to consider before someone uses bleaching gel.

Factors to Consider before Sharing Teeth Whitening Gel

  • Condition of their teeth and gums. Teeth whitening treatments shouldn’t be started without a dentist verifying the condition of a person’s teeth and gums. Any signs of tooth decay or gum disease should be cleared up first.
  • Type of teeth stains. Whitening gel works on many types of stains, but it some cases it can make stains more noticeable—or simply worse.
  • Type of bleaching trays. Over-the-counter or one-size-fits-all bleaching trays can cause more harm than good. Custom trays are needed to ensure the gel stays in contact with teeth and doesn’t ooze out. Otherwise, oral tissue and gums can be burned form the gel.
  • Types of whitening gel. Some dentists use different types of teeth whitening based on the patient’s needs. What’s right for you might not be right for your friends.
  • How long to bleach. Without a dentist’s supervision, it’s a guessing game. Your friends won’t know how long they should use the bleaching gel each day, or how long they should continue to bleach. Over-bleaching can damage teeth.

If you’re not comfortable sharing the bleaching gel from your former dentist, don’t do it. Explain the reasons to your friends and leave it at that. You might be doing some of them a bigger favor than they know.


This post is sponsored by Lowell cosmetic dentist Dr. Michael Szarek.